Hello, I am Dr. Debbie Alexander, a psychologist in beautiful Newport Beach, here to support you with stress, depression, anxiety, PTSD, insomnia, LGBTQIA+ concerns and gender affirmation, sexual dysfunction, aging, partner communication, parenting, improved health, and self-care.  I can help you through important life transitions (i.e. divorce, loss, and grief).  For parenting and partnership struggles, it may be that all you need is a fresh start or a new perspective, along with tools to make that happen.  I understand the need to build a connection with people in order to provide a safe place to talk about the hard things in life.  

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I have extensive experience with LGBTQIA+ and gender affirming individuals.  For gender affirmation I provide psychotherapy, consultation, assessments for surgery readiness, and letters for insurance or surgeons, while helping you through preparation for and recovery from affirmation surgery. 

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As a therapist, my job is to fan the flames of your imagination. Together we will look at your present and future in a different way; as a fellow traveler I’ll travel along with you toward alignment with your values.  My work is based upon accessing the courage that I believe is there inside you to change ways of thinking about yourself and your challenges. 

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On a personal note, I'm a classically-trained pianist, and that along with spending time with my dear husband and my beloved rescue dog is my self-care!   My passion for my work and enjoyment of it happens when I'm the therapy room, rolling up my sleeves to attend to a client's heartaches, providing hope.  Come and sit with me; we'll have an open, non-judgmental conversation about what's keeping you from being more fully you.  Sometimes all you need to make the change you've been craving is to know that you are not alone, because it's never too late to change your life.